Straight Parent, Gay Kid
What Is IDAHOT?
IDAHOT sounds like a new potato to rival the french fries at McDonald’s. But it’s much more widespread and important. May 17th is IDAHOT day. So, what is it? It’s International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia and Biphobia. This Day, celebrated since 2004, is the largest LGBTI Solidarity event to occur globally to bring attention to…
MAY IS MENTAL HEALTH MONTH
Homophobia, the stigma of being LGBT, and discrimination can all affect the mental health of your child. How do you know if your child is well-adjusted to his sexual orientation? Keep the dialogues open and look for clues in these three areas: school, friends, and physical health. SCHOOL Does your child avoid school? Over 30%…
What Your LGBT Child Wants To Hear From You
You don’t want to be blindsided when your child comes out to you. Nor do you want to yell at your child (“you can’t be!”) or doubt his revelation ( “it’s just a phase!”). The Family Acceptance Project at San Francisco State reports that most coming outs do not go well because parents are not…
The Gender Spectrum Defined
Dictionary 101 for Straight Parents Once Upon a Time, we lived in a binary world with Dick, Jane, and Spot. Girl wore dresses, boys wore pants. Girls were given pink lunch trays in the grade school cafeteria. The boys received blue trays. The boys went to “shop” and the girls…
Prepare for GLSEN’s Day of Silence, April 21
As a parent, you want to ensure your child is safe at school. This is also the goal of GLSEN, Gay, Lesbian, Straight, Education Network, the leading national educational organization focusing on safety for all students. There is a need to raise awareness and fight homophobia in schools because: · In a Harris Interactive Study…
Those Who Object To LeFou Are Fou!
Those Who Object to Le Fou Are Fou! I took my kids, then 6 and 11, to see “Beauty and the Beast” on Broadway in 1994. Terrence Mann played the beast. It was a great musical with a good message. I don’t remember any homosexual overtones, except that one of its creators Howard Ashman died…
Conversion Therapy Busted With 20/20 Undercover Investigation
Last night, I watched with horror the testimony of gay boy named Lucas who ran away from a Restoration Youth Camp in Alabama. His adoptive Christian parents from Naples, Florida sent him to an unlicensed pray-the-gay-away camp because they couldn’t deal with his homosexuality. Lucas ultimately ran away from the camp as he was beaten,…
U.S. History’s First
When Gavin Grimm’s ACLU lawyers argue his case, Gloucester County School Board vs. G.G., scheduled for March 28th, it will be the first major decision on whether transgender people are covered under sex discrimination law. Grimm’s case is arguing that his high school’s policy violates Title IX of Education Amendments of 1972, which prohibits sex…
Mr. Smith Goes To Washington, 1939 Mr. Gavin Grimm Goes to Washington, 2017
In the popular movie of 1939, Mr. Smith Goes To Washington, Gary Cooper plays an unassuming honest senator from Montana who takes on corrupt Washington politicians. This week, a shy, humble and determined seventeen year-old high school student from Gloucester, Virginia, Gavin Grimm travelled to Washington with his mother to be the lead plaintiff in…