Straight Parent, Gay Kid
Sex Ed. From Teen Vogue More Inclusive Than Schools’ Versions
On July 7th, the popular Teen Vogue, aimed at 12-17 year-olds, published an online article “Anal Sex: What You Need to Know/How To Do It The Right Way that has Conservative right-wingers working themselves into a lather. Some parents have called to cancel their children’s subscriptions to the publication and started a backlash on social…
What Your Child Fears Most When He Comes Out To You
You think you know your child. And suddenly, when he comes out, the news can be such a surprise to you that your brain goes into denial mode. This news goes against the grain of the traditional life you’ve envisioned for your child, even before birth. How dare he interrupt your dream based on cis-gender…
How Does Your Child Know He’s Gay?
It’s not for parents to doubt. When a child comes out, many parents believe it’s a phase. How could a ‘tween or teen know at such a young age, especially if he is still a virgin? In this regard, it is awfully hard for you to “walk in your child’s shoes.” This is one instance…
What’s With LGBT-Exclusionary Sex Ed?
What’s With LGBT- EXCLUSIONARY Sex Ed? Why doesn’t sex ed in schools apply to LGBT students. Did you know thatin most states except California, Colorado, Iowa, Washington, and Washington, D.C., LGBT students waste their time in either abstinence-only or sex ed that only pertains to heterosexuals. LGBT kids sit in classrooms where their teachers and…
What Is IDAHOT?
IDAHOT sounds like a new potato to rival the french fries at McDonald’s. But it’s much more widespread and important. May 17th is IDAHOT day. So, what is it? It’s International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia and Biphobia. This Day, celebrated since 2004, is the largest LGBTI Solidarity event to occur globally to bring attention to…
MAY IS MENTAL HEALTH MONTH
Homophobia, the stigma of being LGBT, and discrimination can all affect the mental health of your child. How do you know if your child is well-adjusted to his sexual orientation? Keep the dialogues open and look for clues in these three areas: school, friends, and physical health. SCHOOL Does your child avoid school? Over 30%…
What Your LGBT Child Wants To Hear From You
You don’t want to be blindsided when your child comes out to you. Nor do you want to yell at your child (“you can’t be!”) or doubt his revelation ( “it’s just a phase!”). The Family Acceptance Project at San Francisco State reports that most coming outs do not go well because parents are not…
The Gender Spectrum Defined
Dictionary 101 for Straight Parents Once Upon a Time, we lived in a binary world with Dick, Jane, and Spot. Girl wore dresses, boys wore pants. Girls were given pink lunch trays in the grade school cafeteria. The boys received blue trays. The boys went to “shop” and the girls…